Without further ado, here's what's been crackin'. Since the treatment a couple weeks ago, we've been in pretty good moods. Last time was the 1st time we actually felt like we got 'good' news, so we've kinda just been living on those words. The Dr's and nurses and family I've seen have all been impressed with the amount of hair I have. Yes folks, it's growing back and I haven't been to the barber, or as DBone calls it - 'The Beauty Shop', or as the late, great Big Ern called it, 'The Ugly Shop', or whatever other name you might have for it, since my locks started to re-sprout.
I actually am


The only weird thing about the rest of the hair on my body, is that it really isn't 'mine', so to speak. I used to have curly hair, like arms and legs and chest...and it was mostly blond (or in the case of my beard, kinda multi-colored). Today, I sport a fine look of what I like to call 'Mediterranean Chic.' Straight, BLACK, soft hair. It's fine because it covers...it's just not mine. Simple observation, that's all....and from everything we've been told, this will all grow out and my real man-layer will return after the drug explosion sessions are over (GOAL: December).
Besides the hair changes, there have been some other developments in t

So, work was officially underway, even though class didn't start until just this past Monday. Nonetheless, the thought of rest was becoming more and more a priority - and L has never been one to argue that point ;) Coming home from work, getting into comfy pants and sleeping through dinner is her dream date - and I'm glad I finally get to go on those dates with her!!
We actually were in The D a couple weekends ago with some Tiger tickets, and decided the day of that we were just too tired to hit the game, so we drove down to Comerica, found a gentleman who was slightly larger than us - combined x 2 - and sold the tickets for face. Fine with us...just meant we got to lie around DBone's for an extra couple hours before heading home.
This past weekend was full of some serious highlights!! For the last month or two, there have been plans in action for my college friends to come out here and just hang out for a weekend. No bachelor party, no wedding, no births, no over-the-hill blowout birthday parties, no real culminating event to celebrate - it was seriously just a weekend to hang out with the guys I went to school with and don't get to see nearly enough - whether it's because we live 2,000 miles apart, have opposite schedules, or just haven't coordinated well enough in the past.

But wait, there's more! Since these Cali-cats arrived before 11 on Friday morning, we had plenty of time to kill before the Vegasnator arrived that afternoon. So, we headed home to drop off the guard dog, and went up to Real Food Cafe, aka the world's freaking greatest (or one of) overlooked breakfast spots that has a menu longer than the Bible, and that's full with ONLY quality dishes - including the Breakfast Monte Cristo, which is a fried egg sandwich with cheese and bacon, stuffed wonderfully between 2 pieces of TEXAS CINNAMON FRENCH TOAST!!!!!

Well, L had a half day, so she got home after we had brunch and the festivities rightfully began then. A serious Costco visit, another airport visit to get Kid Vegas and we were ready for festivities! I have to admit, for as much hype and man-love and excitement we shared this weekend, it really was all in pretty good control and not too extreme. We had some lawn games going continually (washers, bags/cornhole, bocce), as well as, 2 grills going almost throughout the entire weekend,

Friday night, L and I had a serious decision to make. We had been talking about booking a vacation in January because, honestly, WE FRIGGIN NEED ONE!! Turns out, about a month back we got an email from Carnival about some cruises and discounts and blah blah blah. Well, this week I got another email about a 72 hour sale that ended Friday night. So, do we or don't

The weekend continued, knowing we have a great trip to look forward to in 4 short months, just as it started. Saturday we did some more grilling - courtesy mostly of SRTM's #1 and 2, and their championship techniques - and lawn games and bathroom visits. Not to mention some fuse blowouts, DVD issues, outlet explosions and other unexpected events - all of which have been rectified - for the better, I think?!?
Sunday, unfortunately we were met with some extreme heat - and really, I think we were all just kind of worn out from the excess of lawn games and food! So, we spent most of the day inside....but that was fine with everyone. It made for a good movie/TV day and some real just 'chill' time with my buddies. Perfect day, really! As the crew began to wear off, it was nice to

Last but not least, school started this week. So far so good, although we haven't had a 'real' class yet. Regardless, I've met the students and have started to get into a regular schedule - kind of hard since next week we have Labor Day and the day after off, but you get the point. Today was a chemo day, and DBone came up to keep some company. It was nice to have her there, and the box of bakery cookies she came with, too - moms and aunts always know how to hit the heart (Auntie R shared the same gift a couple weeks ago, too, so I have to get that shout-out in here, too). You guys are great, and thanks for all the healing goodies!!
As for today - Dr. #4 still thinks things are looking good - like I said, I look normal, still have that

Yo was great to come out and just chill. I had a blast hanging out with B-Muttz, L-Muttz and everyone else from the crew! Hopefully we can get together again soon. I'm already looking forward to my next encounter with the fine food and people at RFC, B-Muttz ain't lying, damn that is some good breakfast. Thnx for the kind words and hopefully the rest of this year stays on the upbeat.
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It was nice to hear you had a great time with your friends. Your cruise sounds fun and you and Lindsay really do deserve a vacation. Good luck with teaching. I know your students will love you. I look forward to hearing more good news in your next blog. My love to you both.
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Nice summary of the weekend's events. You must be a professor or something ... Real good to see you and L, and all the rest of the cats from the college days. Some of us have changed, dropping weight, others grew locks, but we all still share that connection. It's a lifetime bond.
ReplyDeleteGot to say, BMuttz, you look strong and will only get stronger. L, you're a champ and a great hostess. Thanks for introducing me to Woody's, which exceeded expectations, and the breakfast spot. My colon still hasn't quite recovered from Nasa's ribs, but they were worth the pain. If I had one regret, it had to be "Whale Wars." Seriously, what the hell is up with that show?!?!?!
All jokes aside, we need to do this more often. I'll be talking to you Saturday via text during the game. Go State!
Wowzers, you have been busy! Glad to hear the news is good and you're feeling better. Fingers crossed it only gets better!
ReplyDeleteBig ups to SRTM #2 for taking inspiration from your situation. That's awesome! Can't wait to congratulate him in person.
I wanna know who won these lawn games? Oh, and Jake is forbidden from the ribs in the future. I think he's still feeling it.
Good luck with those college kids, BMuttz! Thanks for the update and tell LMuttz I said she's a brave woman for making it through last weekend. :)
Dear Ben and Lindsay,
ReplyDeleteWe are thrilled that the two of you have had such a happy get together with your bud's from State. We can't wait to see you both for the holiday. Love to you both, Aunt Julie and Uncle Steve
all seismic ribs, supersized breakfasts, exploding sockets, and magically appearing Space Research Dudes taken into account .. what I remain most curious about are exactly what kind of "SOUNDS" you inserted into your power point to keep your students awake. given your predilection for humor, even contemplating that mess is pretty funny.....
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