For whatever reason, the chemo really seems to effect B's pain levels. His shoulder
, as well as his right hip, are really hurting and as a result we haven't done much this weekend. To make matters worse, B ends up feeling like he is holding me hostage because I end up hanging with him here in the dungeon, aka the original 'Master Suite'. So he wants me to ask for some ideas of what to do alone in Grand Rapids for a few hours here and there, while he is stuck in what I will dub "C" mode. So my followers.... suggest away. And don't get me wrong, I know how to hit up the local shops and how to get myself a nice mani/pedi....and for my closest freinds....you guys would not believe how long my nails are. Just ask Senora Kiss, 
who has witnessed the nail transformation over the last 6 months. They are long and strong and shockingly fabulous. And when it comes to shopping, I have that down so I am looking for alternative ideas of what to do around town. However, for the record, I enjoy hanging out with B doing 'nothing' (read: watching mad amounts of TV/DVR recordings and movies), and I think that maybe B really just wants me out of the house.....I can take a hint, hombre. I mean, who doesn't enjoy hanging out all day in PJ pants after a long P90X workout? I personally enjoy doing nothing very very much, as do the trusty dog and cat. You will never catch our dog, lazy bones, complaining about a day of rest. Our perro lives for that stuff!B and I did get to see my Bro and one of our nieces on Saturday, a
nd we also went out to a local hot spot for some delicious tapas....thank you very much San Chez! It is just that both B and I are getting pretty sick of him feeling sick. After all, it has been 6 months since he started chemo, and we have another 3 ahead. We often ask for God to heal just 1 thing. It's not like we are asking for everything to just go away, but if just the arm, or just the leg would feel better, we could both get a little bit of B back. I know that often times we try to be upbeat on the blog, however B still struggles every day. Just carrying his computer bag and walking to class is a struggle. He often times says he feels like an 80 year old man, and I don't blame him. So much has been taken away, and we just hope that with each passing day he is able to get an inch back.Anyways, B heads back to work again on Wednesday and we are hopeful that by then he is back to feeling OK. We promise to keep you all in the loop. Looks like we have a busy fall on tap...with the Jewish Holidays, a few MSU football games, some tailgating, a tri
p to Chicago, and of course our Cruise!! So it appears that we are going to be busy, but busy is good for the soul and spirit! And after the Cruise, not much planned except a brand new semester for Professor Muttz.Thanks again for stopping by and we hope that everyone was able to enjoy the extra day off.
And for all you celebrating this week, toot your Shofars and have a very Happy New Year and enjoy your apples and honey!
BMuttz: Feel better, man. I know it's easy to say when I have no idea what you're going through. But just think about it like this, you're two-thirds done with the chemo. The finish line is getting closer. Keep fighting every day, and you'll get through it. Don't really have any suggestions for L becuase I'm not good at knowing what women like to do, and I'm not that familiar with G-Rap. But I'm sure my better half has some suggestions for you. Both of you keep fighting every day. We're with you.
ReplyDeleteHappy new year! I had no idea my apples and honey (and peanut butter) snacks that I love so much were a Jewish holiday treat. Good to know.
ReplyDeleteSorry about the painful chemo reactions. Here's to better days ahead! I'll be praying for "just one thing to get better" too.
L, when Jake's working weekends I love to catch a movie by myself. A movie he'd refuse to watch, like Eat Pray Love or that new one that's coming out soon with Kristen Bell and Jamie Lee Curtis. Another thing I like to do is shop at second-hand stores. It's time consuming because you have to really hunt, but when you find a true treasure, it's so worth it. I've added the cutest things (mostly vintage) to my closet from doing this. Just a couple things to consider.
Take care, you two!
P.S. You do that P90X workout? Dayumm! That's impressive.
Dear Ben and Lindsay, Thank you for writing. We are sad to hear that the "Master Suite" has become a central location yet again. With the New Year approaching and our fate for the next year to be reviewed by god and sealed, our wish is for the both of you to find HEALTH in 5771. May the sweetest year belong to you! L'shanah tovah tikatev v'taihatem! Love Uncle Steve and Aunt Julie
ReplyDeleteDear Ben and Lindsay, Please know each and every day we think about you and pray that you will continue to heal.
ReplyDeleteLove Uncle Paul, Auntie Robin, Dan, Brett , Zack and Dakota the dog!
LMuttz.. an hour's bike ride, even just around town and residential areas, not to mention woods and trails.. is very exhilarating. It is almost impossible to not feel refreshed after a good bike ride in the fall. Do you have a bike? Another idea.. a yoga class.. meditative and grounding. A consistently great place to escape and be entertained for free is a weekly chill-out trip to Barnes and Noble.. to just leaf through books for an hour or so.. going through anything that seems interesting to you. A pottery class. You could take out some serious frustrations while smacking some clay around. Anyway, those are just a few ideas off the top of my head. Three more months may seem like an eternity, but is a lot less than what you guys have already endured - so that's a positive note indeed. You are both in my continued prayers.
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Hi B & L, hey add some tomato and mayo and you two can be my favorite nonkosher meal ever! Hope you get this I know it is on the wrong screen but I read your updated blog and I too am praying every night that this journey makes a quick right turn for the better. I think of you daily and love D so much I am here for her, I just want to be as strong as you both are. ALL MY LOVE, Jan T.
ReplyDeleteP.S. when I say I "love" her I mean she is the closest to a sister I could ever have, she is my BFF (that can stand for alot of silly things but you get me. Again, xxxoooJ.T,
ReplyDeleteAlso, A contribution letter should be coming your way soon., I made a donation to "Stand Up to Cancer, several weeks ago and they haven't gotten around to sending you a letter, sorry....just wanted you to know. JT,again.
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